Delete Viruses before they Infect You

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control alternate deleteGet really, really good at

HITTING the DELETE button!

 

Whether it’s stress, worry, anxiety, relationships or making it through a difficult obstacle in your life; If you want your life to be better, you’ve got to think better!

Our mind is like a computer.

You can have the best, newest computer with the latest, largest memory available– But, if your computer gets a virus-it’s not going to run right.

Sometimes you get a virus.

 

Your negative thoughts and mindsets are just like a virus.

When this happens, you need to reload new software in the computer just like you need to take time to reprogram your mind.

Just like it’s not the computer or the hardware that’s defective, it’s not you that’s defective but you just need to work on getting the right software or the right thoughts.

Your programming needs to change in order to live a good life.

You can reprogram yourself to be healthier, happier and more at peace.

You can re-program yourself to be a

victor and not a victim.

 

As you’ve faced life obstacles and challenges throughout your life, you may have been contaminated with some viruses.

Thoughts like:

  • “I’ll never break this addiction”
  • “I’ll never lose weight”
  • “I’m too slow”
  • “I’m unattractive”
  • “I can’t do this”
  • “Things will never get better”
  • “This relationship is over.”

You need to reinstall new software to get rid of the virus. (get rid of the negative thinking)

Change them to:

  • “I’m strong”
  • “I’m capable”
  • “I’m hopeful”
  • “I can do this”
  • “It’s possible”
  • “Every day things are getting better and better”
  • “I’ve got what it takes to get through this.”

Reinstall software that works!!

Reinstall software that gets you the results you want to have in life!!

You’ve got to change your inner programming, (thoughts and mindsets)in order to change your life.

You’ve got to learn to hit the DELETE button when negative thoughts come.

Those negative thoughts are a VIRUS trying to hold you back in life.

When you think:

  • “It will never get better” Delete, Delete, Delete and replace it with,
  • “Things are getting better and better every day.”

When you think:

  • “I just don’t have what it takes” Delete, Delete, Delete and replace it with,
  • “I’m learning and improving every day”

When you think:

  • “I’ll never reach my goals” Delete, Delete, Delete

When you think:

“I’ll never break this addiction” (overeating, overdrinking, negative thinking, worrying, depression) Delete, Delete, Delete

You have to get really good at hitting

the DELETE button!!

 

You don’t have what it takes–DELETE

You can’t do it-DELETE

It’s not going to work out-DELETE

It’s too hard-DELETE

Your spouse is an awful, terrible person–DELETE

Become an expert at hitting

the DELETE button!

 

If you continue to let negative thoughts play over and over in your mind, they will CONTAMINATE your life!

Quit dwelling on negative thoughts-it’s like a COMPUTER VIRUS and if you let it take over, it will ruin your operating system and things won’t run right!!

If you think you’re not good enough-you’ll never have the confidence to be who you really are capable of being.

If you think you can’t handle some situation, then you’re right you can’t.

That OPERATING VIRUS makes you think your negative thoughts are true, but they aren’t!

It’s not too late; you can still reprogram your computer even after it gets a virus.

You can reprogram your mind.

 

If you think you’re inadequate, that you are defective, that you aren’t good enough—DELETE IT!

You would be amazed by the potential and ability that lies within you.

If you think You can’t do it. If you think You don’t have what it takes. Clear it out-Delete it, Delete it, Delete it.

If you think You’re undisciplined. DELETE IT

What thoughts are you dwelling on??

 

What viruses are you allowing to infect your operating system?

If you want to have success in any are of your life, you have to have positive thoughts of hope. The thoughts you continually think become your reality.

You have to start getting rid of those viruses–Start deleting those negative thoughts.

Start saying:

“It’s possible”

“I can do it”

“Things are getting better every day”

“I am strong, beautiful, talented”

“I am good enough”

“I have amazing potential”

Get rid of those viruses that have been passed down by your past family and all the teachers in your life-the kids around you growing up.

You’ve let the programming of all the people you’ve been around creep into your mind.

Do you want to let other people’s programming affect you?

  • Walt Disney was told he wasn’t creative.
  • Lucille Ball was told she had no talent.
  • Elvis Presley was told he should go back to driving truck.

The common denominator between them is that they chose to remove the negative labels, the viruses and believe in themselves.

Other people are always putting labels on us and we are often putting labels on ourselves-most of the time those labels are not in agreement with who you really are!

Put on new labels-for a bright future-and a new beginning.

When your thoughts are better,

your life will be better.

 

Some people go through their whole day wondering how bad it’s going to be or thinking about how bad it’s been.

Don’t replay doom and gloom.

Don’t focus on imagining future doom and gloom.

Reprogram your mind and start to play a new recording in your mind throughout the day.

Remember you’ve got to

change your thoughts to change your life.

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Fay Prairie is a counselor, personal life coach and speaker specializing in personal development, relationships and empowering mindsets. She helps set you free from stress and negativity so you can start creating a Better You…Better Relationships…Better Life…

Fay also provides workshops and trainings.  Check out her speaking page by  Clicking Here

Contact Fay to set up a FREE 30 minute call to discover how Personalized Life Coaching can help you to begin making positive changes in your life!   (e-mail fay@fayprairie.com or call 507-829-0181) 

What are you Assuming?

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assumptionsMost Disagreements are the

Result of Faulty Assumptions.

 

If in doubt, ASK…

Once while hiking in the mountains a man observed two other men across the valley also walking along a narrow pathway. They were just far enough away that he could hear them talking, but could only make out the muffled sound of their voices.

All the sudden one of the men turned to the other, shouted loudly at the top of his voice, and then violently shoved his companion off the pathway.

The man rolled down the steep embankment to the bottom of the ravine unharmed.

Because of his perspective and his rushing to a conclusion, the observer “assumed” he had just witnessed a violent act, but what he didn’t see was the huge rattlesnake the man was about to step on before his friend bravely pushed him out of harms way.

What he didn’t hear were the words of an impassioned warning – he “assumed” they were words of anger.

We all tend to do this quite frequently.

 

We interpret information through our own filter and make faulty assumptions.

The sad thing is that most of our assumptions are negative.

  • You said that on purpose to hurt, blame, or criticize me, etc.
  • You did that on purpose; you know how much it bothers me.
  • I know how they’ll react so I’m not even going to bring it up.
  • He/she isn’t talking much so they must be upset.
  • They should know what to do, what I need, how they should behave, what’s going on……etc.

The list of assumption goes on and on.

We’re really not near as good as we think are at mind reading.

Mind reading leads to more resentment and anger than we really need to have.

Be open-minded, ask questions, gather details before you make an assumption.

Communicate to people how you feel and what you need them to do.

Don’t assume that they should know.

 

Why?

You can save yourself a lot of anguish!!

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Fay Prairie is a counselor, personal life coach and speaker specializing in personal development, relationships and empowering mindsets. She helps set you free from stress and negativity so you can start creating a Better You…Better Relationships…Better Life…

Fay also provides workshops and trainings.  Check out her speaking page by  Clicking Here

Contact Fay to set up a FREE 30 minute call to discover how Personalized Life Coaching can help you to begin making positive changes in your life!   (e-mail fay@fayprairie.com or call 507-829-0181) 

If you were surfing, would you rather land in the rocks or the sand?

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rocks or sand without ogoWhen you learn to surf, you’re taught that you will always head towards that which you keep looking at.

Would you rather land on the rough edged rocks or the sandy beach?

In life, when you dwell on what could go wrong, you head for the rocks.

The ROCKS

  • I have no idea how to do this.
  • What if I put in all this time and effort and nothing changes anyway.
  • Who am I trying to kid—I don’t have what it takes.
  • Things will never be the way I want them to be.
  • Things will never get better.

Why not dwell on what could go right, and land on the soft sand.

The SOFT SAND

  • It’s going to be so awesome to figure this out.
  • I can’t wait till things start turning out the way I want them to be.
  • It’s going to be so freeing and exciting to finally head a different direction in my life.
  • How amazing it will be when I can make and create my life to be the way I want it to be.

YOU HAVE A CHOICE –you can focus on the ROCKS or you can focus on the SAND.

Which reality are you going to focus on?

Which brings you more joy?

Why waste your time dwelling on worst case scenarios?

Making assumptions that things will never change anyway?

Why prepare for doom?

Why be pessimistic?

Why worry about the things happening that we don’t want to happen?

Especially when you can focus on how amazing it’s going to be when you create that great relationship, get that job you want, make the changes you want to make and move towards that goal you want to reach.

When you focus on how wonderful and exciting it will be when things turn out, you feel HAPPY.

When you feel HAPPY, it will give you more MOMENTUM and MOTIVATION to make those changes.

It takes the same amount of energy, why not think about things turning out just like you want them to instead of how you don’t want them to?

Why not feel better?

Feel more excited?

Feel more joy and happiness?

You’ll have less anxiety and worry in your life.

The soft sand will feel so much better than the jagged, rugged rocks!

The newest research in neuroplasticity proves that you have the capability to do this; you can retrain your brain through repetition and practice.

If you’d like to learn more about how you can implement this in your life, contact Fay.

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Fay Prairie is a counselor, personal life coach and speaker specializing in personal development, relationships and empowering mindsets. She helps set you free from stress and negativity so you can start creating a Better You…Better Relationships…Better Life…

Fay also provides workshops and trainings.  Check out her speaking page by  Clicking Here

Contact Fay to set up a FREE 30 minute call to discover how Personalized Life Coaching can help you to begin making positive changes in your life!   (e-mail fay@fayprairie.com or call 507-829-0181) 

Wanna know 5 Secrets to a Happy, Fulfilled Life?

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secretWanna know 5 Secrets to a happy, successful life?

 

Would you like to have less stress, less anxiety and more peace, happiness and success in your life?

What is it that happy, successful people do different?

 

Start implementing these 5 secrets in your life and watch the changes begin!

 

Secret One: Let the PAST go.

There are some things that have happened to you in your past that you just need to be finished with! Stop turning around and looking back.

There are some bridges that you should never cross again. Your past should be just that…your past. Learn what you can and then stop replaying it in your mind! Look positively to the future! You have comeback power!

 

Secret Two: Think POSITIVE–words have POWER!

Suspend your disbelief and negative talk; pull yourself up with your words. Say to yourself….”Yes I can”….”Yes I will”…… “I got this.”

Remind yourself how much strength and power you have inside of you to make it through any situation.

Be deliberate about setting up your day to win. Whatever you feed your mind in the first 30 minutes of the day will impact the path of your day. Saturate yourself with positive words that fuel your energy. Your thoughts really do create your feelings. Choose them intentionally and wisely!

 

Secret Three: Avoid head TRASH.

Don’t be a garbage can for anything that does not feed your intellect, stimulate your imagination, or make you a more compassionate peaceful person.

Refuse to open your mind to other people’s trash–avoid negative conversations with people who will drag you down and get you off course.

Head trash can infect you with a mind virus of negativity and defeat and that won’t help move you forward.

 

Secret Four: Believe in POSSIBILITIES

Don’t stop now! Your breakthrough may be right around the corner. The last mile is often the longest one… Refresh your attitude and adjust your thinking to one of POSSIBILITIES — you can still create amazing results in your relationships, career, health or finances.

Challenge yourself to become more creative and determined to find solutions that will turn your life around. You may be surprised at the breakthroughs and solutions that will come your way.

 

Secret Five: Selectively choose what NOURISHES you

Stay connected with people who inspire and bring out the best in you. Read, listen and focus on positive things.

It takes a conscientious effort to keep yourself in a positive mindset, especially if you are going through difficulties and emotionally trying times in your life.

PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE………………

 

Make an effort to implement these five success principals in your life so you can strengthen yourself and improve every area of your life, both personal and professional.

Remember, you have the capacity and ability to build the life you desire.

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Fay Prairie is a personal life coach and speaker specializing in relationships and empowering mindsets. She helps set you free from stress, negativity AND FRUSTRATION so you can start creating a life and relationships that you’re excited to wake up to!

Fay also provides workshops and trainings.  Check out her speaking page by  Clicking Here

Contact Fay to set up a FREE 30 minute call to discover how Personalized Life Coaching can help you to begin making positive changes in your life!   (e-mail fay@fayprairie.com or call 507-829-0181) 

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